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		<title>By: Heathrow in the Morning - Thinking New Technologies</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heathrow in the Morning - Thinking New Technologies</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 04:08:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: The Encounter Habit</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Encounter Habit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 07:45:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I will fly to Mauritius later today, landing early tomorrow morning.  Continuing my theme from my &#8220;Pain is Inevitable, Suffering is Optional&#8221; post at the beginning of this 17-day odyssey, I successfully managed not to let United [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I will fly to Mauritius later today, landing early tomorrow morning.  Continuing my theme from my &#8220;Pain is Inevitable, Suffering is Optional&#8221; post at the beginning of this 17-day odyssey, I successfully managed not to let United [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Clemens Rettich</title>
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		<dc:creator>Clemens Rettich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:57:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steve,

I loved this article. Your call to stay present because it is the right thing to do for so many different reasons is so timely, and would be a great &#039;lesson&#039; for a lot of Generation Y. They bring so many fantastic strengths to the game, but multi-tasking and lack of focus distracts a lot of their energy. Your reminder that being present, even in the face of distractions and demands, is a choice, really hit home as well. 

I am making this article my Blog of the Month in my newsletter for June.

Thank you!</description>
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<p>I loved this article. Your call to stay present because it is the right thing to do for so many different reasons is so timely, and would be a great &#8216;lesson&#8217; for a lot of Generation Y. They bring so many fantastic strengths to the game, but multi-tasking and lack of focus distracts a lot of their energy. Your reminder that being present, even in the face of distractions and demands, is a choice, really hit home as well. </p>
<p>I am making this article my Blog of the Month in my newsletter for June.</p>
<p>Thank you!</p>
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		<title>By: The Conversationometer</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Conversationometer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 05:39:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] to his BlackBerry as people stared when they crowded past him.  (Update for those of you who read yesterday’s post: After much hassle, I got my suitcase back from United Airlines. And, I stayed calm throughout it [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Dan Gunter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan Gunter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 17:30:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Again I am reminded of the quote Stephen Covey shares often (and I do likewise):

&quot;Between stimulus and response there is a space, and in that space lies our freedom and power to choose our response. In those choices lie our growth and happiness.&quot; -- original author uncertain.

A little twist I like to put on an old adage is that I disagree with the saying &quot;When life deals you lemons, make lemonade.&quot; Why let ourselves get conditioned to limiting ourselves to just &quot;lemonade&quot; (i.e., only one possible response?) Such limitations are often what keep us from achieving greater things, such as fantastic customer encounters. Or that old definition of insanity: &quot;Doing the same thing, expecting different results.&quot; 

Maybe we should try going for a big old lemon meringue pie for a change?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Again I am reminded of the quote Stephen Covey shares often (and I do likewise):</p>
<p>&#8220;Between stimulus and response there is a space, and in that space lies our freedom and power to choose our response. In those choices lie our growth and happiness.&#8221; &#8212; original author uncertain.</p>
<p>A little twist I like to put on an old adage is that I disagree with the saying &#8220;When life deals you lemons, make lemonade.&#8221; Why let ourselves get conditioned to limiting ourselves to just &#8220;lemonade&#8221; (i.e., only one possible response?) Such limitations are often what keep us from achieving greater things, such as fantastic customer encounters. Or that old definition of insanity: &#8220;Doing the same thing, expecting different results.&#8221; </p>
<p>Maybe we should try going for a big old lemon meringue pie for a change?</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda Cullen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda Cullen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:31:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good catharsis through blogging here (:</description>
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		<title>By: Ed Markey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ed Markey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:54:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bob Sutton touched on this topic recently as well.

http://bobsutton.typepad.com/my_weblog/2009/06/dont-let-them-touch-your-soul.html#comments</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bob Sutton touched on this topic recently as well.</p>
<p><a href="http://bobsutton.typepad.com/my_weblog/2009/06/dont-let-them-touch-your-soul.html#comments" rel="nofollow">http://bobsutton.typepad.com/my_weblog/2009/06/dont-let-them-touch-your-soul.html#comments</a></p>
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		<title>By: Smilin' Phil</title>
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		<dc:creator>Smilin' Phil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:32:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes I think you are writing about me Steve.  Actually ALL OF US can learn from the title of this blog!</description>
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